Looking out; looking in.
Yes, I know, you’ve met the man or woman of your dreams. Precisely, that soul mate you’ve been looking for, and life is so grand with this other in your life. Or, maybe after two or three years in the relationship, or longer, after the passion has cooled, or, worse yet, after you’re trapped in a marriage that’s going south, fast, and will be difficult to get out of because of the kids and house and finances, this big time loving soul mate of yours isn’t as grand as you thought he or she to be when you first fell in love; when it was all fresh and new and earth shattering. Or maybe you’re still looking for love, convinced that your soul mate, the one that God made just for you, is still out there, coming to you any day now, on a white stallion, or more appropriately, unless you frequent dude ranches, will be the one that drives up in that fancy car at the stoplight, right next to your, gee, I wished I had washed my car. But that doesn’t matter now, only your heart does, and you know, just by looking into his or her eyes, that this is the one. There’s nothing wrong with yearning and getting, certainly it’s much more fun than wanting and not getting, poor you. In any event, and we know where we stand in the soul mate business, even when we’re too proud or ashamed to admit it, we are all still looking for love.
Well, isn’t that grand, and why shouldn’t it be? If love is all there is, and I say that love is all there is, then it has to be our emotional responsibility to go after it. Being a love fanatic, I am always looking for love, usually in all the right places, finding uninhibited love in the animals, especially the dog, and in some people, easily recognized in those that love themselves. I will admit that I wasn’t in love with my first husband, Ken, at least not in the “I’m in love” sense that I felt with my second husband, John, who I’ve been with now for twenty years. With Ken, I loved how my family loved him, and I loved his gregarious personality, still with him. But more than that, I loved how he loved children. I married him because I knew he’d make the best father, ever, which he proved himself to be with our daughters, Renee and Rachel, who brought Ken and I together because they chose us to be their parents. Ken, who I love more today than I did back when we were married, is a fun and fabulous “papa” to our grand children, Desmond and Lucy, as is his wonderful wife, Linda, who is the nicest grandma a child could ever want. One of our favorite things to do at family gatherings, which Ken and Linda often attend, is for Linda and I to catch up on our Desmond and Lucy stories.
With John, the love of my life, my dog loving spouse, I am pleased and proud to rejoice that I am exceedingly happy in our marriage, because we always have fun together, even considering the rocky terrain that we’ve been through with our extra-curricular romantic wanderings, that all couples go through (if only in our minds) unless they don’t. With John, I am even more in love than I was when I first met him, and was so completely smitten that I couldn’t eat or sleep or think about anything else, save him. Now we eat cakes and cookies and pastas and love sandwiches together and get fat, not caring what others think (whom we hardly ever see) because we live from the nature and beauty of our own home and park-like community that surrounds us, as we live within each other. We resound to a chord that strikes harmony, that says, let’s keep this good thing going, because together in our relationship, we can each be real and alive and completely ourselves, even more so than we can when we’re apart. After a couple of hours of John being away, I want him back, and so after two or three days of his absence, say, where he’s off teaching a writing seminar, which he does for part of his financial living, I can hardly wait for his return! It’s called the pleasure of enjoying the company of another person.
But the truth of the matter is we are not living with our soul mates here on earth, because our soul mates, the other half of each one of us, cut from the same cloth of our unique personality, are not living on this planet. The reason for this is that it would be far too detrimental for both halves of the whole individual to be on the earth plane at the same time. The earth plane, especially as we immerse in these end times (which will end in this lifetime), is a bloody battlefield of apathy and ignorance. And even though peace is on the rise, with higher and whole-centered thinking adding to the collective consciousness, the earth plane is still steeped in the muck and mire of a lost people, which makes it predominately a place of violence, man-created, because of the amnesia about our greater good and inherent value. Our soul mates live in peace as God beings, having the range of a whole perspective, which is where we live when we’re not here. They are happy and joyous beings who live in the light, as light, and are ever ready to assist us in all our matters, both trivial and great, for it is impossible not be one with the other half of that which makes us whole. Our soul mates attend to us lovingly, even when we don’t know that they’re there, which makes them lonely and eager for our holy reunion. God sends us messages on light waves, and so do our soul mates, making their thoughts and emotions known to us through our intuitive chambers that we rarely pay attention to because we have forgotten how to listen, as we have forgotten how to believe in ourselves. The good news is that our soul mates believe in us! They are the vital halves of what will surely become our whole body of gods, commingling in paradise when the New World arrives. For now, our soul mates continue to practice patience, while eager for this separation from our loved ones to be over, as I am ready for this to be over, finally, so we can live our universal lives as whole beings, again.
As I’ve stated in past installments for Hug Peace, each human entity, and spirit entity, here and from the other side, in order to have life, have to have a negative and a positive charge to make that happen. Women are the negative charge and men are the positive. Therefore, glory be to God, there is someone out there just for you, as there is for me, and for all living beings, including the plant and animal and mineral kingdoms, which means even the rocks have soul mates. The other half of who we are is as real as we are, only far more mature and wiser because they don’t have the baggage of the human drama to drag along with them, as well as a cumbersome body, even though our soul mates have had human incarnations while we were on the other side tending to them. Living in the light, as we all will, one day soon, will mean that we’ll be living with our soul mates forever in the happy cooperation of co-creating new life together out of a higher consciousness and raised vibration. When this happens, and it will, we will all be living together as one family of God throughout eternity. Until that grander than grand time arrives (Lord, let it be soon) our soul mates are as free and light and adventurous as any being, anywhere, and as pure as God is pure, as we are pure, but don’t know it, yet, because of our limited understanding.
When we’re living on earth as it is in heaven, in the New Jerusalem, wherever and however we want that to be, with our soul mates, we will finally know complete joy and bliss in ways that cannot be experienced here on earth with our soul mate brothers and sisters that we fall in love with and marry and have children with. We will not leave our loved ones behind, or become jealous because of our reunion with our eternal soul mate partners, on the contrary, we will love all beings without abandonment, as we will love ourselves, because we are all connected to the holy whole of love: One with God and the Goddess, as we are one with each other.
For more information on soul mates, you can check out my soul mate’s book, entitled, Soul Mates, by Ramtha. You’ll have to get it from interlibrary loan or on Amazon because it’s not in most libraries or bookstores, even though it should be.
May peace be with you, Talia
